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I am commonly ate before I'm born and after I'm dead.
I am very afraid of doing scary activities.
My first is second in line; I send shivers up your spine; not quite shining bright I glitter in the light.
If you're looking for something sweet I know what to do. But if you don't like heat I'm not for you.
I am the word that is always spelled correctly by everyone.
When is it bad luck to see a black cat?