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Fuels backyard get-ยญtogethers
Plant whose name sounds like a dish full of dairy spread.
My first is in wield, sever bones and marrow. My second is in blade, forged in cold steel. My third is an arbalest, and also in arrows. My fourth is in power, plunged through a shield. My fifth is in honor, and also in vows. My last will put an end to it all.
People like this usually live in rural areas, unless they are lucky enough to strike oil and move to Beverly Hills.
You can spin, wheel and twist. But this thing can turn without moving.
Almost everyone needs it, asks for it, gives it. But almost nobody takes it.