Answer:
Men in skirts blow into these.
I have joy in bringing two together, but darning my existence! My life hangs by a thread, filled with ups, downs and resistance!
Come up and we go, Go down and we stay.
What sphinxes employ and players enjoy.
With sharp edged wit and pointed poise. It can settle disputes without making a noise.
Two little holes in the side of a hill. Just as you come to the cherry-red mill.