Answer:
Fuels backyard get-togethers
A type of hammer that brings a room to order.
My second is performed by my first, and it is thought a thief by the marks of my whole might be caught.
You can read it both ways, I wear; One way it's a number, reversed a snare.
I am the third from a sparkle bright, I thrive throughout the day and night. Deep in the path of a cows white drink. I've had thousands of millions of years to think. But one of my creatures is killing me. And so the question I ask to thee, is
I have two eyes in the front and a lot of eyes on my tail