Answer:
I am commonly abbreviated to H
I only exist when you are here. Where you never were I can never be.
I am not very commonly found! Only in some rainforest! I have an odd number of toes! I'm very lazy and hang upside down!
No matter how little or how much you use me, you change me every month.
I hide in a dark tunnel awaiting my time. I can only be released by pulling back. Once released I may do unstoppable damage.
It has no top or bottom, but it can hold flesh, bones, and blood all at the same time.