Answer:
Light me up in backyard gatherings
People make me, save me, change me, and raise me. What am I?
What has a head and a tail, but no body or legs?
Some try to hide, some try to cheat, but time will show we always will meet.
I've been argued on my color. Without me you'll die. So many attempts on your life use me so make sure you have many of my White friends.
I flow from the Homerβs mouth when he sees doughnuts.